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How to start a conversation with a girl

📝When you start a conversation with a girl, remember that your first message isn’t just a phrase you throw into her chat. It’s your first chance to show that you’re not just another guy sending generic lines like “Hey, sexy” or “How are you?”. Messages like that instantly put you in the category of anonymous, boring guys she’ll likely ignore.


đŸ”„Think about how you’d approach her in real life. If you met her in a cafĂ© or on the street, would you jump straight to making awkward compliments or asking personal questions? Of course not. You’d introduce yourself and try to show genuine interest. In this lesson, we’ll break down how to start a conversation in a way that makes her feel seen and valued as a person, not just as someone to flirt with.


Forget the clichĂ©s — they won’t help you stand out. Instead, learn how to make your first message count

Now watch the 1st lesson 👇

😀Now that you understand how important it is to make your first message personal and engaging, remember this simple rule: don’t rush into asking intimate questions or pushing for a meeting right away.

Your first message should show respect and sincerity. You’ll stand out if you demonstrate that you’re genuinely interested in her as a person, not just someone to chat with casually. Ask questions that make her want to respond, and don’t make her feel awkward or pressured. To do this, pay attention to her profile and point out something you genuinely like, whether it’s her style, hobbies, or photos. Most importantly, don’t expect her to reply instantly. Give her time, and show that you’re not in a hurry — this proves your interest is more meaningful. This will also help you understand whether she’s genuinely interested in continuing the conversation.

Next time you text a girl, think about what caught your attention about her and what you’d like to learn. Don’t rush to conclusions or expect things to happen instantly. Your goal is to start a conversation that feels natural and comfortable for both of you. See you in the next lesson, where we’ll discuss how to avoid common mistakes and ensure you don’t mess things up early on.
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